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virtualwolfLiveJournal12 Comments

I miss my kungfupolarbear. Someone needs to invent teleporters so she can be here already.

Everything is completely perfect… well, minus the fact that we’re about ten thousand miles apart, anyway. We’re totally and utterly comfortable with each other. We can just lie on the couch in complete silence, and it’s absolutely perfect.

I’d never have dreamt in a million years that I’d have found someone as awesome as her, and fallen so deeply in love with her. If you’d told me that a couple of years ago, I’d have laughed and called you crazy. Someone I’d never met and only knew through LiveJournal and E2? Ha! But it happened. And it’s awesome.

A friend of mine, Millsy, is a bit bummed about his total lack of success with the opposite sex. I was never quite as bummed as he is, but I always thought the whole “Once you stop looking you’ll find someone” spiel was bullshit. But that’s exactly what happened with me… I was completely resigned to the fact that I was going to be a single father for the rest of my life. And then wham, I’m madly in love with the most awesome girl in the entire world. I related this to Millsy, he still thinks it’s bullshit, and I can’t say I blame him, I’d have thought the same thing in his position. But it totally isn’t bullshit, IMO.

Squee. I love you, Kristina.

(Wow, I just completely destroyed all of my metal cred with this post).

virtualwolfLiveJournal8 Comments

I swear the process for getting a visa to get kungfupolarbear moved over here is ridiculous. I’m looking through all the forms and information on the website, and there’s no one single “THIS IS THE SHIT YOU NEED AND WE’VE ACTUALLY INCLUDED IT ALL IN ONE PLACE” page. It’s all scattered over about three PDFs and a whole shitload of pages on the Immigration site.

It wouldn’t surprise me if it was deliberately done like that, but jesus christ. I’ve had to make my own checklist of stuff and am currently actually using my three monitor setup to its fullest extent… PDFs and webpages open all over the place!

::faceplant::

Also, kungfupolarbear wasn’t kidding about the band Unheilig… they’re fucking awesome!

virtualwolfLiveJournal4 Comments

Well, after all my glee in my last post, Lily had an absolutely atrocious night. 🙁

She woke up a bit before 1, I just put her dummy back in and she went back to sleep. Unfortunately she woke again at 3, with her nose totally blocked again. I attempted to give her another good squirt of saline solution, but I didn’t want to wake my roommates up with her crying. I brought her into my room and put her in bed, and she kept stirring and crying out for a good couple of hours. I finally got to sleep again at 5, and woke up an hour later to her stirring more (she wasn’t crying, just moving about, but I’m quite a light sleeper).

All up I probably got about three or four hours sleep last night. I was intending on having a nap on the bus on the way in to work, but I remained stubbornly awake. 🙁 On the bright side I’m a lot more awake than I was expecting to be.

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I actually really truly felt like a father tonight.

I put Lily down a bit past 9, and stayed in the room with her for a while as she kept crying when I went to leave. She eventually fell asleep and I went out into the lounge room. About an hour later she started crying again, I went in and she was rolling around in her cot a bit with her dummy half in her mouth, trying to breathe. Her nose was completely blocked up.

She was crying fairly severely by this point, I went out and got the baby cold/flu drops and managed to give her some, although she was crying even more now because she was still mostly asleep and not sure what was going on.

I grabbed the baby saline sinus drops and picked her out of the cot, popped her down on my bed and attempted, mostly successfully, to give her a good squirt or two up each nostril. She was thrashing around quite a bit and crying a whole lot, understandably. Once I was done I was just lying next to her while she calmed down, just talking softly to her. I was lying on my side with my head on the pillow, and she actually rolled into me and curled up as she went to sleep.

I know it probably sounds silly, but I’m really proud of myself… I didn’t freak out or have to call mum for advice, I quickly worked out why she was crying and sorted it out, and she calmed down and fell back sleep with me holding her.

::beams::